My lovely friend won some tickets from the Grimsby Telegraph in the summer to see 'Lady Boys of Bangkok' at the venue 'Beachcomber' Cleethorpes and she chose me to go with her!! Amazing))
I decided to dress the part and wore my Collectif floral halter neck sarong dress with an orchid in my hair!
We were very lucky to have seats at the front, to stage left. It was a cabaret setting with seats at large round tables.
If you love variety, which I do. If you love comedy, which I do. If you love glitz and glamour, which I do and if you love drag, which I do. Then this show is for you.
Magnificent costumes changed with skill and ease and brilliant lip syncing, worthy of RuPaul's drag race. Comedy sketches and stunningly gorgeous lady boys. What is not to love!
I was very jealous of their looks and gorgeous long legs.
It is the sort of cabaret that I always imagined I would be part of. I must admit I am in my element at these sort of shows. Cabaret and variety have such a varied portfolio. I love the simplicity portrayed on what is often a complex act.
The music chosen was current as well as favourites such as Abba and Britney and Liza Minnelli!
The one song that I love and which closed the show is 'I am what I am'. I adore the lyrics of this song. 'I am what I am, I am my own special creation'
I identify with the lyrics as I am somebody who is different. At school, growing up I felt it was a bad thing. I should fit in. Luckily, as time has gone by I realised it is okay to be my own person. So what if I did not listen to the same music or 'So what if I love each feather and each spangle. Why not try and see things from a different angle!!'
The song was originally written for the musical 'La Cage aux Follies' Have you seen the musical? I love it. I also enjoyed the film remake of it 'The Bird Cage'
The version that really hits me in the feels is when my idol 'Danny La Rue' sings it on his album. Danny did not admit, to the public, he was gay until not long before he passed away. I always dreamt that I would marry Danny and we would run a late night cabaret club! See, I told you I had different dreams to others!!
Danny was a drag artist and these are genuine Lady Boys. They were born a boy and are a transvestite or transsexual. Even if trans people have had genital reassignment surgery, they are not allowed to change their legal sex in Thailand.
The shows are a way of the girls and boys working in a safe environment. This does not mean that the show is substandard. They give a high standard quality show performance.
If you want good variety entertainment and fun then catch the Lady Boys on tour. Take a look at the link. below:
Lady Boys Tour
Here are a few following photographs from the night.
I am what I am
I don't want praise I don't want pity
I bang my own drum
Some think it's noise I think it's pretty
And so what if I love each sparkle and each bangle
Why not try to see things from a different angle
Your life is a sham
Until you can shout out, I am what I am
I am what I am
And what I am needs no excuses
I deal my own deck sometimes the aces sometimes the deuces
It's one life and there's no return and no deposit
One life so it's time to open up your closet
Life's not worth a dam till you can shout out
I am what I am
"If happy little bluebirds fly, beyond the rainbow, why, oh why, can't I?" ~ Harold Arlen
Images copyright: Lorna Liza